Your phone lights up and you have a text from your best friend...
Your jaw drops. What do you do?
Listen FIRST. If you are a good friend let her tell you what she's thinking and help her find the best solutions that will help.
Help her talk to the important people. Offer to sit with her while she tells her parents, the baby’s father, or other family members. It can be helpful to know she already has someone on her side when she shares the news.
Learn about the shelters in your area. You can call us to start a conversation about her best options for a place to stay.
Don’t…
Don’t shame her. She may already feel guilty, embarrassed, or ashamed. She doesn’t need those same emotions coming from her best friend. Be her safe person. Look for solutions, not problems.
Don’t pressure her. You may know what you would do in her situation, but that doesn’t mean that’s what is best for her. Make sure she knows that you are standing by her as she navigates her decisions.
Don’t ghost her. Regardless of her relationship with the baby’s father, she is probably feeling alone right now. The last thing she needs is to lose her best friend
Have more questions?
Need more help? Please reach out to us with any questions. We’re here for you and your friend.
I'm pregnant or my friend is pregnant. What are my options?
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We do not offer, recommend or refer for abortions or abortifacients. We are on a mission for pro-life for the moms and their babies to help them in this difficult time.
